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Committed Relationships vs Unabahed Freedom  [message #57079] Wed, 20 May 2009 13:24 Go to previous message
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I think I was right to act the butterfly when I was young, and to alight on all of the flowers that I could. Looking back, I'm so happy I lived that way, because I have many heartwarming memories of really nice guys. As I aged, the thrill of the hunt and the ecstasy of groping the golden ring on the carousel of life diminished and I longed for permanence. Now losing my committed relationship is unthinkable. My partner is not perfect. For one thing she's not a guy. But I doubt that any of our visions of the perfect partner lives and breathes. But the way people grow together over the decades is priceless. To me, and I'll turn 58 on Friday, the rewards of commitment are many fold worth giving up the freedom of being single. So what are your views of the "commitment vs freedom" dichotomy?


Behold, how good and how pleasant it is
For brothers to dwell together in unity!
Ps 133:1 NASB
 
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