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Do we have masculine and feminine sides? [message #57440]

Sat, 20 June 2009 07:25

timmy

Has no life at all

Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13826

I feel neither masculine nor feminine. I feel 100% me. I hate shopping, am lousy at housework, am physically stronger than most ladies, and cry at weepy movies, something that happened as soon as my son was born, never before.

I'm gay. Should I be "displaying a feminine side"? No-one knows I'm gay unless I tell them. Does that mean I'm masculine?

I'm a natural bottom. Does that display my feminine side? Would being a top make me masculine? Or is that just what I wish to do sexually?

I know how to mend a car. I can strip an engine down and it runs when I put it back together. Does that make me masculine? in WW2 many excellent mechanics were pretty young ladies. Are they now masculine, or does this mean I am feminine?

Is "our feminine side" something imposed on we queers by society back in the 1950s when we were all exhibits in a freak show, or is it real?

Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School

		Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: timmy on Sat, 20 June 2009 07:25
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: arich on Sat, 20 June 2009 13:17
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: Macky on Sat, 20 June 2009 16:01
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: e on Sat, 20 June 2009 18:45
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: timmy on Sat, 20 June 2009 21:15
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: Macky on Sun, 21 June 2009 00:08
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: acam on Sat, 20 June 2009 20:35
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: Macky on Sun, 21 June 2009 01:46
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: acam on Sun, 21 June 2009 19:51
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: e on Sun, 21 June 2009 20:22
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: timmy on Sun, 21 June 2009 21:07
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: Macky on Sun, 21 June 2009 22:19
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: acam on Mon, 22 June 2009 08:10
		Re: Do we have masculine and feminine sides? By: Macky on Mon, 22 June 2009 12:23
		How did we get to male and female brains? By: timmy on Mon, 22 June 2009 14:32
		Re: How did we get to male and female brains? By: Macky on Mon, 22 June 2009 15:26
		Re: How did we get to male and female brains? By: timmy on Mon, 22 June 2009 15:37
		Re: How did we get to male and female brains? By: timmy on Mon, 22 June 2009 16:28
		Re: How did we get to male and female brains? By: Macky on Mon, 22 June 2009 17:20
		Re: How did we get to male and female brains? By: timmy on Mon, 22 June 2009 17:47
		Re: How did we get to male and female brains? By: arich on Mon, 22 June 2009 18:17
		Re: How did we get to male and female brains? By: timmy on Mon, 22 June 2009 19:22

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