I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
We should not, however, be throwing our hats in to the air and discarding condoms. 30% effectiveness is massive progress but is not yet cause for celebration or stopping safe sex.
Even 100% effectiveness does not mean stopping safe sex. Hepatitis is awful, Chlamydia has almost no symptoms, and no-one wants HPV.
So there is hope for the future. Many more development hours have to happen before there is a vaccine on the general shelf.
So, until then, What are you doing for World AIDS Day?