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Frustrating...  [message #59403] Tue, 03 November 2009 19:34 Go to previous message
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Hi, Im not sure what to do. I have been trying to find that spot for what seems like ages now so I guess I'm doing it wrong...AGAIN! Every time I'm totally clean, nice and relaxed, very lubricated and feeling pretty good actually. I bought a flexible vibrator some time ago, it's about 6 - 7" long and has 4 bulbous sections which is nice actually as you can go as far as you want and keep it there. Everyone seems to say that you can reach your prostate with your finger so I slid my vibrator in to about the length of my middle finger.......nothing. Wiggled around a bit for a while and got some strange (nice) sensations but that was it. After carrying on like this for quite some time and getting very frustrated, reduced me to tears to be honest, I slid the vibrator in all the way. The sensation was amazing (after a while) it felt like my whole middle section was ready to overflow or explode or I don't know but it was lovely for only a short time and then went away. That was so, so frustrating.

Am I just really unlucky, is it just pot luck, why is it so far inside me, am I using the wrong vibrator?

Sorry it's a long story, I guess it's because I cant talk to anyone about this and never have. Could guilt be holding me back?

Thanks
Japa
 
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