I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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We see these words all the time. The Gay Community.
Some of us have never met another gay person in our lives. That's nothing to be ashamed of, it;s just a fact.
Some of us are out and proud.
Some of us are peering round the closet door wondering when and whether to venture out
These are examples, only. For you what do the italicised words mean?
Do you feel part of a global and diverse group of gay men? Do you identify as LGBT, not simply gay?
Will you march in a Gay Pride parade? Or have you done so? Is that a community?
Is it a local thing, this community?
Do you join it, or were you always part of it?
If a gay person is hurt somewhere in the world, do you react as an individual, or not react at all, or react because a person has been hurt, not a gay person? Is that what community means to you?