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Macky
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Location: USA
Registered: November 2008
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Now some of you might think it's is a really weird thing to post on a site about men loving men. But that's your first mistake. Today fatherhood is open to every man. So, just accept that you can be a father if you so choose and listen to what I have to say about it.
It is an astounding and wonderful thing that I can not imagine anyone not loving...I mean absolutely loving it. Obviously, I'm a father.
Ok, so I had my kid in a traditional way. Big deal. The only thing a wee bit out of the ordinary with me was that I was months away from being 40 years old when my son was born. So naturally I am hughly in favor of parenting by older men. Why, I'm 58 and my son is still in high school and it's great. Just personal testimony.
But guys can have kids easily today. Rent-a-wombs can be had relatively cheaply in India. You can buy an egg, or get your sister or bestest girl friend to donate one. Face it, yes, you can be a father. So the great news is that it is an option for you! And I don't fuckin' care if you're fuckin' 70 years old.
It is an option for regardless of age. If you are responsible and can afford to look after a kid financially, I see no problem. There are trusts that you can dictate how your child is handled after you are gone, should that be a consideration.
I know that Timmy will have a problem with this. We've had these discussions before. I say that, age is no problem. And I claim greater knowledge of this than Timmy, simply because I am an older father and he was never that.
And I am absolutely certain that I could have not been a good father before the age that my son was born. And, also, I am so happy to be a father, retired from the workplace, and prepared to donate all of my free time to helping my son achieve independence. It's really cool to be old and still to be nurturing a young in'. You'll have to take my word for it.
So, what am I saying? I guess that I am talking to all of you that don't have a kid. I guess I am saying that gay bi, straight, or whatever does not count in the decision at all. I guess that I am saying that I find it huge fun and am recommending it to all of you. And finally, I guess I am saying, don't limit yourself because of anything...anything.
Max
Behold, how good and how pleasant it is
For brothers to dwell together in unity!
Ps 133:1 NASB
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Fatherhood
By: Macky on Fri, 29 January 2010 23:13 |
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Re: Fatherhood
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'Gayby Boom' Fueled by Same-Sex Parents
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Re: Fatherhood
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Re: Fatherhood
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Re: Fatherhood
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Re: Fatherhood
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Re: Fatherhood
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