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What is there about a man besides his body?  [message #61243] Tue, 09 March 2010 22:36 Go to previous message
Macky is currently offline  Macky

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OK, so I have been guy watching.

Last week, I posted about how I would like to see authors describe a character's hair. I know that sounded as gay as fuck, but for me, Hair can be a big plus to a person's appearance.

That got me to thinking about things that make a man attractive that have nothing to do with his bodily attributes. I wonder if anyone could add to this list.

1. Manner of carrying himself. Please, no troll trudge! I like a nice lilting, ever so slightly effeminate walk.

2. Kindness. This is a super big turn on for me. If I see someone go out of their way to try to make someone else feel at home, well, I like that in a guy.

3. Toilet. How he shaves, trims, combs, clips. Maybe I'm weird, but I really notice if a guy is concerned with keeping his body neat and tidy. I guess a nice cologne can be part of this. Too much artificial scent either from cologne or deoderant can detract. A little earthiness is good. Farting is straight out, although nefarious inaudible farting can be cute.

4. Smile. A smile is like spending a week with someone and getting to know a lot about them. Silly smile, kind smile, friendly smile, sexy smile. I see a guy smile and I feel that I know him. I guess I find smiles to be a sort of free and easy intimacy. I really do.

5. Clothes. A guy who knows how to dress himself...or if he has a partner who knows. You just have to notice a guy who is dressed to accent his good points and to draw attention away from his bad ones.

Can you think of any more sorta non-physical things that make a guy more appealing?

Max


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