I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Tonight things have fallen apart. When - or if - the lad returns or contacts me, I will have to tell him that he can no longer live here. I'll continue to support him as best I can, in whatever ways he needs and allows, but I have to limit the risk I expose myself to.
"The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral, begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy. ... Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night devoid of stars." Martin Luther King