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icon5.gif Sometimes I have to check  [message #65797] Fri, 27 May 2011 17:08 Go to previous message
timmy

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Do you ever check? I mean I'm sure about it, but I do, just sometimes, because I'm curious, decide to check what all the fuss is about. So I go and look and I find that I still don't know what all the fuss is about.

There are cute girls. Anyone who can admire beauty of any sort can see that they exist. They often have exquisitely svelte bodies, too. So why is it that, as soon as I see a naked one, however well posed, however shaved or hirsute, however gloriously proportioned and slim and glowing, I look at the business end and wonder what all the fuss is about? After all, this is beauty, isn't it?

So I should at least be able to recognise a beautiful vulva, and understand why a heterosexual version of me would find this a delight.

With a gentleman of similar age and svelteness I can see whether he is aroused. With a lady I can't. I wonder if that's it?

The answer isn't as simple as "You're gay! Get over it!" because I know I lost my virginity to a girl and I know I can have sex with them. So what is the answer? Because every tie I check I come to the same conclusion. Beautiful they may be, except for the business end. Erotic they are not. They are neater and tidier than males at the pudendum end, but they have flappy chests!



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
 
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