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icon8.gif I'm Sick To My Gut...  [message #67370] Mon, 04 February 2013 14:18 Go to previous message
Michael-Kent Dobison is currently offline  Michael-Kent Dobison

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Location: South Africa - Gauteng
Registered: January 2007
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I'm so sick and tired of not being what "they" are looking for Physically... and when I say "they" I really do mean almost every gay man on a dating website!

I'm not sure if this ship has already sailed or not for most of you but I just can not fathom it any more. You're not so much a allotted the time day if you don't have a picture on your profile and you get even less of that time if the picture you post isn't of your luscious genitalia or of your rippling abs.

It just blows my mind while I wish it was blowing something else Very Happy

I used to bounce around the online dating sites looking for 'my next big thing' in respect of trying to get myself back out in the world, meet some people and maybe - just maybe - I'd find a relationship.
After almost two weeks back on the web and surfing around I disappointedly noticed that NOTHING has changed...

"Can I get a pic of your Dick?"
"A So L (Age, Sexual orientation, Location) ?"
"You keen for a F**K?"
"You into Kinky Shit?"
"You had 24in before?"

- And these are just a few of the requests I got in my first THREE HOURS... But Wait , if you Keep reading there is more (That was my cheap stab at morning shopping channels Laughing ) As soon as they see your picture and read that you are not Mr-Muscle-Universe all interest wanes like a child that has just licked all the icing off a cupcake...

Am I a one-man-show when it comes to feeling like this?
Have any of you experienced the same or this exact response when signing up to online dating?
And really I just want to know if I'm being over optimistic in thinking that online dating can actually still work?

The Devil is in the Details and now we have FACEBOOK... Bastards...



"And so the lion fell in love with the Lamb"
"What a stupid Lamb"
"What a sick, masochistic lion"
 
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