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Half formed thoughts about genitalia  [message #67648] Thu, 11 April 2013 23:14 Go to previous message
timmy

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There are a good many things I find interesting about genitalia, even female genitalia. That I find interesting because it lacks any particularly obvious method of showing that its owner is aroused, save, of course, for increased moisture levels. I also find its neatness and tidiness interesting until one gets close too, when it looks rather ragged at the edges.

Having disposed of the ladies and their pudenda, the male version is of much greater interest.

It's very interesting that it shows instantly that its owner is aroused. More interesting still is that this arousal is contagious. School showers showed that! Males get aroused by seeing other males in a state of arousal.

Other areas that interest me are certainly my own ability to separate enticing male genitals, in which I include the anus, from lovely male faces. I know each set of male genitalia will have a face, but I can be very excited at a comely (no pun intended) set of male parts without regard to the face, and I can become very excited by a comely face without regard to the dangly bits.

Indeed I seem to separate objects of desire into "clothed with faces" and "naked and erect (or exposed". Having a great face and a great set of genitalia is obviously ideal. I go back to school showers when I could bask in the glory of both, and also the hideousness of some faces and their attached rather ugly genitalia. Indeed the cute boys always seemed to have cute genitalia and the ugly ones had the more aggressive looking parts. Was I just prejudging the dick by its cover?

Am I alone in being aroused by faces, and in being aroused by genitalia with no obvious face?

And, of course, though I have no idea how to get an accurate answer, are heterosexual men also aroused by a well formed set of male parts that are not their own?

[Updated on: Fri, 12 April 2013 09:26]



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