I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
We men have known about rape for a long time, and have resources here for those affected. Our needs for support have commonality with thsoe for ladies, but with huge differences. We can't get pregnant, nor do we have to fight for an abortion in unenloghtened places like ladies impregnated by a rapist do. But we can feel 'unmanned' by it, emasculated.