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Re: Greetings one & all  [message #79016 is a reply to message #79015] Wed, 27 May 2026 09:17
Ryxler is currently offline  Ryxler

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Hi there, Greetings sir. There's nothing medical about me, but I do appreciate paediatrics in the wider sense as it concerns children. Paediatric, paederasty and paedophilia, with all being derived from the Greek, as you'll know. I've got to be careful here not to associate oneself with the latter two terms, but can their intrinsic concept within Boylove, and the sexuality of boys, be a subject for discussion in the forum?
Re: Greetings one & all  [message #79017 is a reply to message #79016] Wed, 27 May 2026 10:20
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Anything may be discussed. There is a simple proviso, that the discussion needs to be wholesome. By that I mean it must not even appear to be seeking an unlawful partner, nor should it detail more than you would wish to reveal about yourself.

Minor children are precious, often precocious, perhaps especially when trying out in their heads the new elements that puberty brings them. My view is that the adult has the duty to say no, whatever the minor chid thinks in a haze of new hormones is what they wish to do.

Children have enough problems when sexuality awakens. We have a court case right now where some yoiung teenage boys were convicted of rape of what I believe to be a slightly older girl. The sentence is being heavily criticised because it was not custodial, and there are a number of armchair warriors seekng to make them serve jail time. Only the judge can justify the non custodial sentence, and I suspect it was a hard decision. Only the particiants know what truly happened, so I am not commenting on the rights and wrongs of the case itself. I mention it as am example of what can go horribly wrong for any party of any age who forgets that they may look but never touch

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Re: Greetings one & all  [message #79020 is a reply to message #79017] Wed, 27 May 2026 21:43
Ryxler is currently offline  Ryxler

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                     You've cited the non-custodial rape case. In what context have you raised that. You comment and offer an advisory, but which way do you sit with it? Should the boys go down or be let off, With how you've couched your description, it seems you're with the latter. Are they precious, as well? Nevertheless you decline "not commenting on the rights and wrongs of the case itself," Why not? And why have you cited it at all? I am not in agreement with your sentiments on children, here. In my opinion, little kids are precious sweethearts, but not adolescents. I do think many children have personal and social problems, which are created in them by adults, but disagree that an adult owes them a particular duty.