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The best bit of porn is...  [message #70093] Tue, 11 August 2015 22:24 Go to next message
timmy

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No, I don't mean "This is where to find it." I mean "This is what I really like about it."

I like several elements, always providing the young gentlemen in it are pleasant looking and look as if they are enjoying what they are doing. There are in no particular order
  • Dildoes, ideally one using them on another, and including face shots
  • Anal finger insertion and manipulation
  • The moment of penis/anal penetration
  • The pulling back of a foreskin, something I so miss about losing mine
  • Watching a penis erect form start to finish, without being touched. This is so rare I have almost never seen it
  • The build up to orgasm and the tensing of the body as it arrives. Less so the actual emission of semen

I am uninterested in anilingus, and not particularly interested in depictions of oral sex of any form. A definite no-no for me is a face painted with semen. A poor soundtrack will spoil any porn for me, as will pointless music

Anyone feel up(!) to talking some more?



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
Re: The best bit of porn is...  [message #70096 is a reply to message #70093] Wed, 12 August 2015 09:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
larkin is currently offline  larkin

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Timmy's comment tell me that he likes the more formal and the classical. 

I wrote a story and posted it here called, "Boys on Cam" 
It was about two boys meeting online and discovering the sexual potential of the computer cam. 
What prompted the story was the seeing a video web-cam in for sale in the CVS drug store.  It was incased in a blister pack for $19.95.  I thought back to when I was 15 and what I would have done if I had a web-cam. 

Not long after that there was a Congressional hearing involving a Justin Berry who was apprehended by the FB1 for exposing himself to men online for a fee.  His testimony was coerced in exchange for immunity and everyone else went down.   

He stood before the hearing and said, "Thank God I have my life back."

This was sort of an ingenuous, baloney statement because he earned enough to go to college 4 times over.

I suppose you could say that this was a form of prostitution but today it is standard fair among a large segment of interested parties on the internet.  It is safe, disease free and you were nothing more than a specter until Google and the government decided to strip us of our anonymity.   
 
What they don't see is that the impulse in entirely natural and should almost be expected. They are like Narcissus gazing into to pool to see and adore their own reflection.  Today, when reaching the age of sexual maturity this has become incredibly common place with smart phones and cams pre-installed on almost all computers.  The frightfully draconian laws are still there to threaten but no one seems to be listening. 

Recognizing this potential danger, mothers were advised not to let boys have the computer in their bedroom but instead set them up in a family room.
 
I saw a video of a boy, "18, of course", sitting naked and engaged in an act luxurious, self arousal in front of the family's computer.  Behind him was the refrigerator, the stove, and above on a shelf 3 canisters, graduating in size, labeled, flour, sugar and salt.  This added further tension fearing that his mother may walk in on him at any moment.  The memories chips of computers-cams and smart phones offers a depiction of real life, uncontrived and as authentic as the family photo album, something we all like to flip through.
    
Home grown videos like these are healthier, more natural and much more interesting than the tawdry and degrading products of the porno industry that often destroys the people that participate.

The billion dollar porno industry that grew-up in the San Fernando Valley just over the hill from Hollywood is dying a death as profound and rapid as that of the record industry.  Nobody wants that junk anymore especially young people.  
 

[Updated on: Wed, 12 August 2015 09:43]

Re: The best bit of porn is...  [message #70097 is a reply to message #70093] Wed, 12 August 2015 11:22 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Kitzyma is currently offline  Kitzyma

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For me:
The best bit of porn is... in my mind.
I much prefer written porn to visual porn.

As regards visual porn, some of my major turn-on factors are:
the faces of the participants in a nude scene, especially if one has spectacles and/or ginger hair;
a cute guy (with specs & ginger hair!) giving a blow job;
a cute guy tied spreadeagle on a bed and being given a bloejob;
seeing the penis both soft and erect (and in-between), preferably with foreskin.

Major turn-offs are:
lots of body hair;
pictures which include an anus.
Re: The best bit of porn is...  [message #70098 is a reply to message #70096] Wed, 12 August 2015 19:57 Go to previous message
timmy

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Quote:
larkin wrote on Wed, 12 August 2015 10:37Timmy's comment tell me that he likes the more formal and the classical. 

I wrote a story and posted it here called, "Boys on Cam" 
It was about two boys meeting online and discovering the sexual potential of the computer cam. 
What prompted the story was the seeing a video web-cam in for sale in the CVS drug store.  It was incased in a blister pack for $19.95.  I thought back to when I was 15 and what I would have done if I had a web-cam. 

Not long after that there was a Congressional hearing involving a Justin Berry who was apprehended by the FB1 for exposing himself to men online for a fee.  His testimony was coerced in exchange for immunity and everyone else went down.   

He stood before the hearing and said, "Thank God I have my life back."

This was sort of an ingenuous, baloney statement because he earned enough to go to college 4 times over.

I suppose you could say that this was a form of prostitution but today it is standard fair among a large segment of interested parties on the internet.  It is safe, disease free and you were nothing more than a specter until Google and the government decided to strip us of our anonymity.   
 
What they don't see is that the impulse in entirely natural and should almost be expected. They are like Narcissus gazing into to pool to see and adore their own reflection.  Today, when reaching the age of sexual maturity this has become incredibly common place with smart phones and cams pre-installed on almost all computers.  The frightfully draconian laws are still there to threaten but no one seems to be listening. 

Recognizing this potential danger, mothers were advised not to let boys have the computer in their bedroom but instead set them up in a family room.
 
I saw a video of a boy, "18, of course", sitting naked and engaged in an act luxurious, self arousal in front of the family's computer.  Behind him was the refrigerator, the stove, and above on a shelf 3 canisters, graduating in size, labeled, flour, sugar and salt.  This added further tension fearing that his mother may walk in on him at any moment.  The memories chips of computers-cams and smart phones offers a depiction of real life, uncontrived and as authentic as the family photo album, something we all like to flip through.
    
Home grown videos like these are healthier, more natural and much more interesting than the tawdry and degrading products of the porno industry that often destroys the people that participate.

The billion dollar porno industry that grew-up in the San Fernando Valley just over the hill from Hollywood is dying a death as profound and rapid as that of the record industry.  Nobody wants that junk anymore especially young people.  

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There is a rich seam of quasi amateur seemingly unstaged porn that I am enjoying. There is a lot of chaff in which the wheat loves, but it;s there. The rigid, choreographed, 'classic' porn is quite easy to dislike



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