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Oliver Strohhacker  [message #70604] Sat, 05 December 2015 18:59 Go to next message
timmy

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If you have not seen Oliver Strohhacker, have a look at Trick or Meat. I think I may just have fallen in love. I'm not keen on his nasal piercing, but he is, to me, a very beautiful young man.


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Re: Oliver Strohhacker  [message #70605 is a reply to message #70604] Sat, 05 December 2015 19:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I have found more of Oliver. I am drawn to androgyny. 


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Re: Oliver Strohhacker  [message #70607 is a reply to message #70605] Sun, 06 December 2015 05:48 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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He's certainly attractive; although a tad too fey to my liking.

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Re: Oliver Strohhacker  [message #70612 is a reply to message #70607] Tue, 08 December 2015 04:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Yup, far to fem for me. But he does have appeal when he's not so made up.


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Re: Oliver Strohhacker  [message #70770 is a reply to message #70604] Sun, 10 January 2016 23:01 Go to previous message
timmy

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Oliver is an enigma. He has very clear definitions of who he is and that he is male. He says his gender is not defined by his body. I can imagine, should one ever have the delight to meet him, that he may be quite a paradox.

His definition has made me think. You will find it in his FAQ section.

He also says in a post in his tumblr:
"Quote:"
too often do i get messages asking "are you a boy or girl" or "what is your biological sex?". it's tiring and never ending, but my answer is always the same. my body doesn't define who i am and it does not decide my gender. i am myself because i say so. and i am male. it's not an opinion, it's not a choice. it's a fact. that being said, it doesn't mean i can't try to appreciate what i have anyways. and until my body reflects what's inside, that's what i'll do. this took a lot of courage to post and i hope you'll all be respectful.


The statement is below the most naked, vulnerable and beautiful I think you will ever see Oliver. He has posted a great deal of himself, and remains a paradox and an enigma.

[Updated on: Sun, 10 January 2016 23:26]



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