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Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74716] Wed, 15 August 2018 19:45 Go to next message
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The heterosexual world has boutiques specialising in erotic lingerie for women. Examples abound. Just search for seductive lingerie.

What is there for the fella? search for male seductive lingerie and find out.

While the range for the girls is large that for the boys seems to be ~ well ~ weird.


That got me thinking. Well., several other things got me thinking as well, but why is the idea of male erotic garb the thong or the elephant's trunk undercrackers?


Why does clothing have a sex? Many nations have men not wearing trousers, not just Scotland.I like a shapely leg.

I also like it as the shapely leg is revealed with the suspense of the reveal. But tights / pantyhose are not the thing dreams are made of. What about stockings and either a suspender belt or garters?

They won't suit a fella with prop forward's thighs, but they will suit a shapely leg



If a short dress or skirt is sexy on a girl, what about on a boy? It's a different tailored fit, but so what?

http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4673&private=0

This lad has legs that would also look great in stockings!


Why is this classed as fetishism?

Why can clothes not be for all, with our selecting those that we actually look good in?

And why are boys and men not allowed to be sexy?
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Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74724 is a reply to message #74716] Thu, 16 August 2018 17:35 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Is the photo with black top and denim skirt a young lad?

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Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74725 is a reply to message #74724] Thu, 16 August 2018 19:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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"Joe4fun wrote on Thu, 16 August 2018 18:35"
Is the photo with black top and denim skirt a young lad?


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Pretty certain it is a picture of a teenage boy.



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Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74726 is a reply to message #74725] Thu, 16 August 2018 21:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I'd like to see some more pictures of the subject in different positions.
I shall certainly give the image further thought...

Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74727 is a reply to message #74726] Thu, 16 August 2018 22:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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"Joe4fun wrote on Thu, 16 August 2018 22:56"
I'd like to see some more pictures of the subject in different positions.
I shall certainly give the image further thought...



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Me too, but that is all I have ever seen. I half remember it was some sort of school uniform protest, but the hair suggests otherwise



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Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74729 is a reply to message #74727] Fri, 17 August 2018 09:17 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Ah yes, I recall quite a few schools hadn't taken their common sense pills,
and banning shorts in summer, lots of teenage boys took to wearing skirts.
I'm not sure how I would have felt as a 13yo boy in a short pleated skirt,
but I may have risen to the occasion...
Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74730 is a reply to message #74727] Fri, 17 August 2018 11:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Having done a quick image search,
there seems to be quite a range of skirts for boys these days!
http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4675&private=0
Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74731 is a reply to message #74730] Fri, 17 August 2018 11:52 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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"Joe4fun wrote on Fri, 17 August 2018 12:14"
Having done a quick image search,
there seems to be quite a range of skirts for boys these days!
http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4675&private=0


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This illustrates part of my question perfectly. Clothes are really not, apart from tailoring issues for body fit, for one sex or the other



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Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74732 is a reply to message #74731] Fri, 17 August 2018 12:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I quite like the idea of a well tailored pleated skirt, to suit boys and men.
I'm not sure what I would wear underneath, snug briefs or lycra boxers.


Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74734 is a reply to message #74731] Fri, 17 August 2018 13:00 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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"timmy wrote on Fri, 17 August 2018 11:52"

"Joe4fun wrote on Fri, 17 August 2018 12:14"
Having done a quick image search,
there seems to be quite a range of skirts for boys these days!
http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4675&private=0



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This illustrates part of my question perfectly. Clothes are really not, apart from tailoring issues for body fit, for one sex or the other

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Perhaps it is just coincidence, but neither of them look exactly happy to be dressed in these clothes 
Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74736 is a reply to message #74734] Fri, 17 August 2018 13:50 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I agree, and guess it was a professional photo shoot, trying to act cool?
Would probably be more happy if all your mates were in similar outfits?

Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74737 is a reply to message #74732] Fri, 17 August 2018 17:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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"Joe4fun wrote on Fri, 17 August 2018 12:27"
I quite like the idea of a well tailored pleated skirt, to suit boys and men.
I'm not sure what I would wear underneath, snug briefs or lycra boxers.



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- A well tailored pleated skirt, to suit boys and men- It's called a kilt, laddie, a kilt, and we know what should or shouldn't be worn under a kilt...




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Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74738 is a reply to message #74737] Fri, 17 August 2018 17:49 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Yes, I know...
and I wear nothing under my kilt!

https://www.tartanregister.gov.uk/tartanDetails?ref=565
Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74739 is a reply to message #74716] Fri, 17 August 2018 17:49 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Well there is this: (photo by Juan Pelegrin licenced under Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic Licence via Commons-Wikimedia)
javascript: cke_insertImage(' http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4678&private= 0');

Or These: Bum-freezer Jackets and figure hugging tights (photo also licenced under CCA2.0 via Commons-Wikimedia)
javascript: cke_insertImage(' http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4679&private= 0');

Historically we had this sort of thing: (Representations of images in Public Domain, via Commons-Wikimedia)
javascript: cke_insertImage(' http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4681&private= 0');
javascript: cke_insertImage(' http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4680&private= 0');

Finally turning to mens skirts: the lunghi or sarong worn on the Indian sub continent and in SE Asia, a very comfortable and versatile garment. (photo by Paul la Porte, licensed CCA 3.0 via Wikipedia)
javascript: cke_insertImage(' http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4682&private= 0');


Please Mr Moderator, Sir - what have I done wrong so that the pics do not display?

http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4678&private=0http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4679&private=0http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4680&private=0http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4681&private=0http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4682&private=0

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Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74740 is a reply to message #74739] Fri, 17 August 2018 17:57 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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There is an option to embed the images within the body of the text?
Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74741 is a reply to message #74738] Fri, 17 August 2018 17:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Ah but a kilt doesn't have to be tartan. For example the Irish Guards wear yellow ochre coloured kilts.



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Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74744 is a reply to message #74741] Fri, 17 August 2018 18:27 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I prefer those cute looking Vatican guards in their uniform.
Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74764 is a reply to message #74716] Mon, 20 August 2018 18:35 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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This picture (link) epitomises an idea of sexy unisex garb. The young gentleman on the right, I mean. I have no idea what sex the perosn on the left is



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Re: Erotic clothing for fellas  [message #74830 is a reply to message #74716] Thu, 06 September 2018 15:01 Go to previous message
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in erotic attire, I find this chap hard to resist. He is certified as 18, and does some very pleasant amateur videos with his 25 year old b/f

Your tastes may vary, of course



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