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Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76253] Mon, 25 November 2019 00:22 Go to next message
timmy

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I mean artificial ones!

Who dares to start?



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Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76254 is a reply to message #76253] Mon, 25 November 2019 01:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Would love to be able to buy a baker's dozen just to be able to try out the variety of shape and styles. Sadly that would be a bit too dear for my coffer. Unless of course you guys would want to set up a fund... I would be more than happy to be a volunteer for the forums trials of prostate stimulators...πŸ˜‰ Just sayin.


So, I'm going to go for two. One that vibrates, the other a manual. I've heard the vibrating variety, in some cases, can be desensitizing. LOL on the other hand, at my age I may need that extra boost of power.😜
But then it is Said the manual type seems to me to be more advantageous to good health, using and strengthening ones pelvic floor muscles as one moves the thing around and make contact with ones "P" spot..... I can grok that for sure!

That's the main dif I see in all the reviews I've seen. Basically the vibrating camp and manual.

The ones I'm especially unsure of are the stainless steel behemoths. I fear if I tried to get active while it was in use it might come falling out and do something a mischief. πŸ€”

[Updated on: Mon, 25 November 2019 02:06]

Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76262 is a reply to message #76254] Mon, 25 November 2019 10:07 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I have a pleasant collection of dildos. Vibration never did much for me, plus they aren't built to last. The most fun was one that twisted and rotated, but that died after a couple of months, Β£40 wasted. Most of these cost a fortune

Some years ago I was sent a free Aneros early model for evaluation. It does the job well enough. I could go for walks with it, but it wasn't comfortable. The Taint Pressure device was a slim 2 dimensional thing like a coin, and it chafed where it pressed. I'm not sure taint pressure is all it's cracked(!) up to be

I've just treated myself to a Njoy Pure Wand after watching some decent porn with cute boys using it. It will not fall out, not unless you lose muscle tone or use only the smaller end! The sensations are far better than the old Aneros device, and beats any of my collection of dildos. The curve means I can get hold of it and wiggle it to my heart's content. It's not cheap, but it's not vastly expensive either

I want the elusive prostate orgasm. This one feels as if I stand a chance!



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Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76265 is a reply to message #76253] Mon, 25 November 2019 17:33 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I have the Aneros MGX Classic. It doesn't seem to do a whole lot for me. Once in a while I'll get a momentary pulse of pleasure and couple of times I thought I might be headed for an orgasm only to have it fizzle out. They say you have to be very patient with these things. I am not a patient person. LOL I usually just finish the session by hand like I've been doing since I was nine years old. I might try a slightly larger stimulator to see if that can get more contact on the prostate and push me over the edge.
Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76273 is a reply to message #76265] Tue, 26 November 2019 04:35 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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One thing I've learned it quality doesn't always follow after expense. That said, the only ones I've ever experienced any satisfaction with were both high quality AND high priced. All others were only preteders. I can't give you brand names because I no longer have either. My "box" was stolen out of my vehicle when I was traveling a year or so ago. They left the laptop and took my "box." Go figure!

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Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76279 is a reply to message #76253] Tue, 26 November 2019 22:33 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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In the spirit of speaking about sex toys, can anyone recommend a plain, flexible/realistic dildo 6 to 8 inches in length? Asking for a friend. Wink
Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76281 is a reply to message #76279] Tue, 26 November 2019 22:50 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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Plain and realistic seem to be contradictions!

https://www.prowler.co.uk/domestic-partner-gi-john-dildo.htm l

That looks good. Why not go for one with a sucker on the base?

Follow Fawnykid on Twitter for some good fun and ideas!

[Updated on: Tue, 26 November 2019 23:07]




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Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76288 is a reply to message #76281] Thu, 28 November 2019 15:49 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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OK, I'll do a review:

Carrot; 3/10 stars

Plusses: Inexpensive and readily available. Can be chopped up and put into soup after usage.

Cons: Kinda rough, often cold.



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Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76290 is a reply to message #76281] Thu, 28 November 2019 16:17 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Teddy is currently offline  Teddy

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"timmy wrote on Tue, 26 November 2019 14:50"
Why not go for one with a sucker on the base?


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My experience with those is that they won't stay put. Or I'm too vigorous in my bliss of enjoyment! πŸ˜‚

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β€œThere's no grays, only white that's got grubby. I'm surprised you don't know that. And sin, young man, is when you treat people as things. Including yourself. That's what sin is.” - Terry Pratchett
Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76365 is a reply to message #76262] Fri, 06 December 2019 23:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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Definitely loving this one!https://www.njoytoys.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/njoy_products_1200x600_overhead.jpgIt's rather good fun, warms up really fast, and leads control back to your hands. You can work up to the larger end. If brave with tight underpants you can even go for a walk! That's 'walk' with an L, not with an N. The weight's rather good, too

I've lost my ensmallening software, sorry

[Updated on: Fri, 06 December 2019 23:26]




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Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76366 is a reply to message #76365] Sat, 07 December 2019 00:38 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Ok so I won a door prize at our, World AIDS Day, community forum, 😜 put all my raffle tickets on the adults only prize (let me say over a couple of decades I having only ever won a coffee mug) so naturally without expectation, I win the dang thing...🀭 Hehe so now I have to go accept the..... prize.

So two of them are serious. And I guess the other two were as well I'm guessing, but I don't have erectile disfunction (A strap on), nor a 13" member which would be required for the JO device I received, a vibrator that probably would have been fun if I could have fit it... 🀨

So what can I say, nothing beats the real thing for one. All is not lost though, and actually, I think I know better now what might be a better, ummm fit for me. Oh, and the two I've used were the vibrating rimmer, No not that rimmer, but I think the Cat and Lister would have been fun. Sorry I digress again.

So anyway the rimmer was okay ehh... Vibrators. I have to agree with those that find them over rated for anal play.... Hard to call it, prostate massage.

The other was a manual (?) shrugs, butt πŸ”Œ, hehe πŸ˜‰ it was the better of my less than ideal choices. LOL though I have to say the ball bearing inside the thing does absolutely nothing... Maybe if I were to jog a few miles with it in I might feel something., walking around just won't do it... Oh I know, jumping jacks.... Yeah that's the ticket.πŸ€”







Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76371 is a reply to message #76366] Sat, 07 December 2019 18:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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I now have a vision of a Red Dwarf erotica range



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Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76372 is a reply to message #76371] Sat, 07 December 2019 23:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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"timmy wrote on Sat, 07 December 2019 18:12"
I now have a vision of a Red Dwarf erotica range

..

😳 I don't know, I've seen pictures of cat penises and I don't think I'd want to mess with a human size replica... You would most probably do yourself a mischief if you went probing around with one of those....

But then again...πŸ€” hmmmm
Re: Should we review Prostate Stimulators?  [message #76384 is a reply to message #76372] Mon, 09 December 2019 00:35 Go to previous message
Teddy is currently offline  Teddy

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I'm in stitches of laughter after reading the last three of four posts!Β 

But to the topic at hand... I one time shared a double-ended, cockring/dildo toy with a guy. Don't know where he got it from and I've never seen another one anywhere. Imagine a double ended one of these with the anal business ends a few inches apart and connected with a solid piece of rubber:

https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/51wE3OZpw2L._SY355_.jpg

The idea was that we layed on our backs, ass to ass, with our legs resting anywhere comfortable and out of the way, and wearing the thing as one would alone except connected as partners in the experience. And it was an experience to say the least. Definitely worth going back for more than one "connection." It was not motorized, and the toy was stiff enough that when you got going it hit all the right spots making it a self perpetuating kind of deal leading to the ultimate, messy outcome.Β 



β€œThere's no grays, only white that's got grubby. I'm surprised you don't know that. And sin, young man, is when you treat people as things. Including yourself. That's what sin is.” - Terry Pratchett
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